How about this for a lovely change of pace...

As a bride the most stressful thing for you should be your colors. You've been dreaming of this day for years, even those that have never wanted to have a wedding, soon get all wrapped up in the Wedding Daze. Its your day and it should be very special to you. Being able to spend it and see it how you want it is your dream.

Hiring a wedding planner  can ease your stress and take tension from others. Changing your pace with friends and family by allowing the planner/designer to handle the details, to be firm when you dont want to, to understand and even assign others to do things.

Take that time to spend it with your bridesmaids, showing that you are still the same person you were before you got engaged. Have down time with your fiance and share stories that made you two fall in love.

Let your wedding planner be your change of pace...